I do not know how to console my dad as I do not (and honestly hope I never have to know) what it is like to lose a parent. And I have waited to post this to come up with just the right thing... I have realized I cannot; there are NO words!
BUT...
What I can say is that Nana was a wonderful, caring person. I had the pleasure and blessing to know her since my mom and dad got together when I was 11. I, not being her blood grandchild never felt anything less; Nana and Papa Hamilton welcomed my sister and I as much as they did my mom. And even though I only met Nana a handful of times I can wholeheartedly say she was my "Nana". She will greatly be missed by the entire family and I send my prayers to the Hamilton side of my family. But please know that Nana is in a better place, although her soul mate Papa isn't with her (and I hope that doesn't happen soon, but I am sure he misses her already more than we can even imagine) I know she will be with us in spirit forever!
One of my most favorite memories of Nana is from my wedding... she was supposed to be in a wheelchair (for what exact reason I cannot remember) but she wouldn't have it! She made it a point to walk down that aisle to her seat... she was so stubborn! And what made it even more special is that they made it a point to come all the way from SC for my wedding!
Another favorite memory is from when my little sister was about 2 they came for a visit in October (at least I think it was, I remember it was October because of a dragon costume she had for Halloween and I took her trick-or-treating and Nana helped me paint her face). I gave them my room to sleep in and I slept on the futon... at the time even though I didn't really mind giving up my room I was a teenager and I felt a little misplaced. Nana made it a point to tell me how much she appreciated me letting them use my room (Papa did too), I think she even sent a thank you card (now I know that came from her since most of our cards/notes come from Papa, this was different handwriting). One night she came into the room I was staying and told me some stories, now I don't remember what story she told me about but she made it a point to talk to me... she was such a wonderful person.
One thing about Nana (now I am not sure if this is Papa or her... I think a little of both) is they ALWAYS remembered my family and I... they may not get my kiddos names right BUT they remember... every birthday, Christmas, anniversary! And I would LOVE talking to her when they called (usually when my dad was over) sometimes she would tell me the same story every time and would laugh that genuine laugh at exactly the same spot every time.
Nana was a sweet lady... she will be missed; but I know she is in a better place!
I am thankful to have known Nana for the short time I did!
Elizabeth Hamilton: May 13, 1922 ~ January 11, 2011... wife, mother, Nana, friend... all round BEAUTIFUL person!
Your Loved One lives In Your Heart
Many tender memories soften your grief,
May fond recollection bring you relief,
And may you find comfort and peace in the thought
Of the joy that knowing your loved one brought...
For time and space can never divide
Or keep your loved one from your side
When memory paints in colors true
The happy hours that belonged to you.
~ Helen Steiner Rice
Many tender memories soften your grief,
May fond recollection bring you relief,
And may you find comfort and peace in the thought
Of the joy that knowing your loved one brought...
For time and space can never divide
Or keep your loved one from your side
When memory paints in colors true
The happy hours that belonged to you.
~ Helen Steiner Rice
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